BE WITH THEM FOR WHAT THEY ARE AND NOT FOR WHAT YOU SEE IN OTHERS!

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The home is often known as the first social cradle for all types of development, growth and changes. The child learns all from home. It has been high time that we thought about bringing changes and positivity to our behaviour at our place in front of our children. Why do we actually need to bring changes in ourselves or support our child in their work and respect their ideas? It is quite obvious that we need to provide a sense of direction towards their growth and motivate them to do more and more of good they are moving towards. The motivation and direction provided to them acts as a foundation for their intellectual and emotional growth for their path of success. The child gets a purpose of learning what he actually needs to for betterment and becoming a civilised citizen in future. 


"BE POSITIVE AND BEHAVE POSITIVE"          -Dt. Komal Mittal

Talk about yourself with an optimistic approach and display positivity towards your actions and goals. Create moments to display love and affection towards your children and prioritise your family. Remind your child that you love them. They should definitely be reminded about their mistakes and explained about what is right and wrong but inspite of the fact they did something which they did not know how to do or they made mistakes in their work , you still love them. Make sure to make them realise your love for them does not stand behind any mistakes but rather is above all the materialistic or other approaches around.

 

Form a bond with your child with some of the beautiful and simple parenting tips required. 

1. Embrace mistakes as learning opportunities.

2. Focus on connection s and communications.

3. Set clear and consistent expectations.

4. Practice positive reinforcement.

5. Take care of yourself.


These tips are not any rules or strict regulations but we need to make our child understand that self-care, optimism and consistency is important for contimous growth and dvelopment. This also tecahes them to follow principles in life and discipline themselves to form a pattern of work for success. 

Do post your comments for sure to tell how you handle critical situations with your child or what changes you brought particularly for your children. 

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Support your child for who they are and not for what you see in others.                                                       -Dt. Komal Mittal

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