I AM EXPECTED TO SMILE !

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" Oh! she went on just like that and didn't smile back. Maybe she has lot of attitude." 

A very commonly quoted saying for all those going through multiple emotions at a go. The psychology of a girl, women, child, adolescent, always keeps wavering around and carries most timid form of emotions. The teenage often tackles emotional setback very often due to lack of consistency in performance, peer circle, dress code, financial changes, physical appearance, changes in life priorities.

 It is a very harsh way of self assuming and judging around others in our own way. One might be going through a traumatic family quarrel but still smiling to hide the pain behind his face. Some lady might have had a nice fight with her in-laws. A man must have just lost his job and struggling with card bills to pay. Someone else might be worried to pay the fees of their children timely and completely. 

Every person is going through things which are different from others. So the next time you find someone who is not smiling today might be facing issues. Instead of nagging then around for not smiling back just hold their hand close or just give a hug and ask, "is everything ok? Are you alright?"

Believe me you will the one who is most desired by that person from that moment onwards and the immense satisfaction you will go through by sharing pain of the person in front will take you to the seventh sky. A grump is not always for you. It might be for the situation a person must be presently going through and unable to come out of it. Try being their support and not judging them for not smiling back. 
                                 
                                                                                -Dt. Komal Mittal

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